My crunchy lifestyle is not a fad.
I don't get it why neurotypical adults act like I'm infringing on their food safety bubble when I talk about my food allergies. Or my kid's food allergies. Or how diet healed my body. Or how I'm not in chronic pain or suffering from chronic constipation anymore because of my diet. Sometimes I feel like I am practicing voodoo or black magic from the looks they give me!
I try really hard not to be judgmental about other people's choices. But I expect the same in return. I am not standing on the rooftop demanding everyone be paleo; that would be insane! I advocate for paleo and how it changed my life, but I respect other people's decisions and I realize that all bodies are different. My husband feels better vegan. However, he does not pressure me to be vegan! He respects my food choices, and I try to respect his.
Just a few short years ago I was in chronic pain. I
suffered from chronic constipation since EIGHT YEARS OLD. I had brain fog, joint pain, and reoccurring miscarriages, just to name a few of the issues I've dealt with since a young age.
After three miscarriages I finally had my rainbow baby. But Reuben
did not nap or sleep until around a year old and he
cried all the time as an infant. He was covered in eczema. I was
frantic to find out what was wrong, frantic
for answers and help, not condemnation and sneers! Doctors had no answers and largely dismissed my fears while offering my four month old steroids. I researched on my own. Steroid creams only made his eczema worse.
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| Reuben, 11 months, Healing |
It took me nine months to find out
his major allergies and a few short months later, his skin was clear and he started actually sleeping.
I wish I could show those who judge the tears I shed
as I held my sobbing, bleeding son, trying to keep him from scratching
his eczema,
not knowing how to help him. I will never forget how helpless I felt and how much I sobbed to God during that time.
So many people badmouth
"the google degree". GUYS, the google degree saved my life. A
biomedical group on Facebook saved my son (Recovering Kids Biomedical
Healing) and their protocol HEALED my son.
I myself went to western doctors for years. YEARS. They did nothing to help me. I was told to eat more fiber. That made my constipation and pain worse. I was told I had arthritis and there was nothing they could do. Since being paleo (it took six months) I have no more joint pain. I am not randomly confined to bed, barely able to move in pain. I haven't worn my arm brace--a monthly occurrence--in over a year.
So, no. My crunchy lifestyle is not a bandwagon fad. I'm not doing it to
prove how I'm so much better then you. I'm not doing it to make you feel bad about how many oreos or cheeseburgers you feed yourself or your kids
. If I could digest oreos, I'd eat them too!
It's saving my life. It's saving
my son's life. Perhaps you could understand this before you tell me you "hate those food snob all organic people" who have "high minded ideas about food". Do you think I LIKE spending a house payment a month on organic food at the grocery store? I have a (few?) autoimmune diseases. Eating this way significantly raises my quality of life. So take your smug expression over my organic health eating choices elsewhere. I'm happy your body can digest and process every food known to man. Mine can't.
I like being a functional human being who is not in pain. I like having a child who sleeps and who isn't broken out in bloody sores all over his face.
And that is why I follow this crunchy path. It is not a fad. Don't belittle the fierceness of a mama bear researching at 1 am or call her desire to heal herself or her children "misguided" or "playing doctor". And don't ever utter the words "all in her head" or "making it up". Yes, I've been told that.
Biomedical healing does not work for everyone; that is not what I am trying to say. But don't limit your choices. I would have tried almost
anything to help my son sleep for his mental, emotional and psychical health and mine! We went to doctor after doctor and specialist after specialist. It was a nightmare.
I am my child's greatest advocate, especially when he doesn't have a voice. Doctors can see between 20-30 patients
a day . I have only one Reuben and a lifetime to devote to his care. I also have a lifetime degree in learning my own body and knowing my own heath. I can find out what is wrong and I can fix it. I know myself. And there is a wealth of information on the internet at my fingertips.
I'm not saying to believe everything you read on the internet. I am not saying to abandon your doctor. I am just saying that perhaps we put to much faith in overworked doctors who don't live inside the vessel they are trying to heal--and not enough faith in our own hands.
Work with your doctor. Work by yourself. But don't give up hope for healing, even in tiny steps. We are all on a journey towards death, as morbid as it sounds. I know I can't escape the inevitable.
But I know myself best. I can delay my sickness and even heal the body I've been given. I can learn more about how it works and how to care for it.
Thus my crunchy-mindedness is not a fad. No, it is a deep vein of research I have poured hours and hours and hours of my life into. And I haven't even scratched the surface.
So before you judge why I panic when you hand my son a treat I am not familiar with--before you judge my hesitation to a request to eat out, or come to a meal-related event...perhaps you could just ask why. And listen. Because it's a long story, and there are a lot of tears along the way.
